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Developmental Milestones: 3 to 4 Years

Every child grows and develops in their own unique way and at their own pace.

 

Milestones are simply helpful guidelines, and it’s okay if your child reaches them a little earlier or later than others.

 

If you have questions or just want reassurance, we’re here for you—please feel free to reach out.

3-4 Years

Fine Motor

  • Drawing simple shapes (circles, lines, beginning crosses)

  • Using scissors with assistance

  • Holding crayons/markers with more control

  • Stringing beads or completing simple puzzles

  • Beginning to copy basic shapes

  • Using utensils more neatly

Gross Motor:

  • Running with better control and fewer falls

  • Jumping forward and off low steps

  • Climbing playground equipment confidently

  • Pedaling a tricycle

  • Standing on one foot briefly

  • Throwing and catching a ball (with some success)

Play & Social Skills:

  • Engaging in imaginative and pretend play with stories

  • Playing cooperatively with other children

  • Taking turns (with reminders)

  • Beginning to understand rules in simple games

  • Showing empathy and awareness of others’ feelings

Sensory Processing

  • Enjoying a variety of movement activities (jumping, swinging, climbing)

  • Exploring different textures and materials

  • Improved ability to tolerate new sensory experiences

  • Still may have preferences or sensitivities

Self Care Skills:

  • Dressing with less help (putting on shirts, pants)

  • Using the bathroom with increasing independence

  • Washing hands and beginning to manage hygiene tasks

  • Using utensils with good control

  • Helping with simple chores

Your child is becoming more confident, social, and imaginative! This is a big year for creativity, independence, and learning new skills.

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